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Advice to my 21 year old self
You can build your own ladder 🪜
🪜 You can build your own ladder
I recently came across the Young Money newsletter by James Rains. If you're reading this post, you might like it too, ill link it (not sponsored, I just genuinely resonate with what ive read till now). This also led me to read a newsletter by Jason who leads marketing at producthunt now.
One of my recent tweets that featured a lesson I took from him, and will write my owns thoughts on sometime.
- building and failing > participation trophies 🏆
- “Tinkering through life” or figuring things out > Blunt rejecting opportunities .. credit @iamjasonlevin
— Sairaj (@sairajchicago)
2:33 PM • Apr 26, 2024
Before I moved out, and for the first 15 years of life, I was fed that life’s mantra is:
Study, get good grades -> high school -> get good grades -> college -> a second degree -> get a job -> get promoted -> continue cycle
A lot of it stemmed from the cultural norms of Asian society but somewhere along the line, probably during my sophomore year in Chicago, things took a 180 turn for me. I got into building, shipping products, attending meetups at incubators and coworking spaces, learning how to pitch in a room of founders and random people etc.
In the summer of 2019, I was working for a German company in Berlin, during which I sold one of the apps I built for a 5 figure sum. The net profit was close to only $500 after the initial expenses, travel cost, paying the contractors and the infra cost but I'd learnt a few life lessons that surpassed any amount of money I could've made from that first sale.
Lesson 1# Building products or services provides more value in the world and self satisfaction to me
Lesson 2# Learning how to market and close a sale is more important than building.
You could sell a product that’s not fully built yet, get signups or confirm your target market, build and deliver to all the signups.
Over the next few years I built more mini-tools as personal projects for free, experimented with several technologies and talked to enough founders, consultants at auditing companies, VCs that funded a few startups in the midwest + NY to understand that there was a gap between the route I wanted to take vs the route that was defined.
In 2022-2024, I learned more about indie prenuers, boostrapping projects, building in public and realized there’s a whole community that surfaces on twitter, reddit, quora where people are super helpful and skilled at piecing impactful projects together. I know they’re impactful since I already know >10 people in my circle that’d pay for a product like cal.com over calendly.com or gummysearch.com (a tool for aggregating reddit data).
My 2 fold advice to my 21 year old would be
build more products/services that can help people, validate and get customers to pay.
If you fail, restart, you can respawn multiple times in life
dont move to SF
learning how to market and sell is as equally important as building a product
go off grid for a few weeks or months every year
🧑💻This Week’s Browser History
Me to the waitress after I have to scan a QR code to see the menu
— greg (@greg16676935420)
4:13 PM • May 1, 2024
Peta blown the fvck out
— Not Jerome Powell (@alifarhat79)
4:58 PM • Apr 29, 2024
⛰️ Mountain Retreat
Feedback would be much appreciated on this cabin